Gut wrenching - mind swimming . . .
Interesting place to start my morning write and a better place to end it. 

“Love at first sight” happens. It floods you with everything all at once from specific to general, amazingly answering any questions you could
think important enough to ask your soul. That feeling appears to un-happen only when we find out that we were wrong. We hadn’t thought of all the questions important enough to ask our souls.  Ask yourself more questions and your partnership changes or your partnership changes. In truth, blame is wasted effort.